You Control More Than You Don’t

Susan Donnelly at Moab 240

Race day is almost here and you’re on edge.

You’ve trained hard for this one and expect the finish you want.

But still, you have doubts.

What if your stomach doesn’t cooperate?

Or you didn’t train right?

Or you have a bad day and can’t stay ahead of cutoff?

So many things can go wrong and you’ve got to prevent that.

So you try to control the circumstances. You get a big crew and a pacer, and obsess about the weather and look for other things to lock down.

But the harder you try to make the race turn out your way, the more anxious you feel.

Because the outcome isn't something you control. It’s a result. A result of things you control and…things you don’t.

You don’t control the weather, other runners, the RD’s decisions, whether someone marked the course well, whether someone sabotaged the markings, what volunteers do and say, whether your drop bags make it to the aid station…lots of things that affect the outcome. 

But you control more about the race than you don’t.

In case it doesn’t feel that way, here’s a small, random sample of things you control. I stopped listing things to keep it a reasonable length, but you get the idea.

Your race goals, including the secret ones

  • Whether you’re going to compete

  • How you expect the race to go

  • The effort you put into running in the race

  • The decision to keep going or drop

  • How you plan to pace the race

  • Your race plan

  • Whether you stick with your pace plan

  • How you think about the miles you’ve covered

  • How you think about the miles you have left

  • Whether you get bored or not

  • What you focus on

  • What you let distract you

  • When to pass other runners

  • How you pass other runners

  • How much time you spend in aid stations

  • Whether you add a goal in the race

  • Whether you allow yourself to use excuses

  • Whether you beat yourself up for not being a better runner or in better shape

  • Whether you second-guess decisions

  • Doing your own navigation or following others

  • When to run and walk

  • How many drop bags you have

  • What you put in your drop bags

  • Your choice of gear

  • Whether you follow another runner’s heels 

  • How you think about runners passing you

  • How you feel about how you’re doing

  • What you eat and drink on the run

  • What you eat and drink at aid stations

  • How often you eat and drink

  • How and when to take electrolytes

  • Whether you have crew and a pacer, or go solo

  • The responsibility you delegate to crew and pacer

  • The instructions you give crew and pacer

  • Whether you keep going or drop after losing time getting lost

  • How you see yourself - as slow, back of the pack, not likely to finish

  • Whether you let what you think other people think about you affect you

  • Whether you stay in or get out of a negative thought spiral

  • Whether you think you can make it or not

  • Whether you pay attention to the race rules or not

  • If and how you let fear of cutoff affect you

  • What you make that sensation in your stomach mean

  • Whether you dig deep to hit your goal or give up

  • How you handle the weather

  • How much you learn about the course

  • Knowing the distance between aid stations

  • Letting the course format - loops, point-to-point, figure eight - work for or defeat you

  • Deciding when to turn your headlamp on and off 

  • Having all mandatory gear

  • What you carry with you

  • Whether you copy everyone else or run your own plan

  • How fast you go out

  • Whether you run with someone even if it’s not your pace

  • Whether you compare yourself to other runners

  • Whether you follow others’ advice

  • Who you run with

If you take care of the things you control, you don’t need to control the weather.

The outcome will take care of itself.

 
Susan Donnelly

Susan is a life coach for ultrarunners. She helps ultrarunners build the mental and emotional management skills so they can see what they’re capable of.

http://www.susanidonnelly.com
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